Marnell's in Mayhem

Unpacking...Again

2012-01-24T19:59:00.002-07:00

We've finally moved it all out of the rental and into our home. Now I just have to get organized a major feat for me. Today I managed to get the office empty and organized. I emptied four bins and one large suitcase. I also unpacked and put away 7 boxes from the living room. Luke and Owen's room is done and organized, just a few more decorations to go up. Beau's room is painted, he needs some shelving units, but I did find curtains for his closet and a small valance curtain for his window. It helps that he has always loved the ocean and each bedroom continues with that theme, this one just delves a little deeper as he calls it and underwater cave. Pictures will be posted soon. Anna's room is a nightmare, not really, but close. Her bed is a loft, that is not yet lofted, so there are pieces and parts everywhere, plus she has collections of stuff that need homes. She needs a shelving unit and she'd like a desk to do her homework in her room. Her room is our goal this weekend, if we complete that the garage is next. I'm still planning a look back at 2011 blog, but life keeps overtaking me. Hoping to get a little done in my bedroom and bathroom tomorrow as I just keep making stacks in there and I think Ben is ready to have an organized bedroom (although he does know he's married to queen of disorganized.) Owen spent the day coloring, thankfully he is getting it all on paper these days, I was surprised how many coloring spots of his I found on walls at the rental when I was cleaning.

All 5 Marnell Cousins

2012-01-16T18:44:00.005-07:00

We finally got a photo of all five. In between moving, school, basketball, and bugs (not the good kind Memere) it was hard to capture this. Auntie Kara sang a rousing rendition of Old McDonald had a farm to make Owen smile and not scream while I fed Ruby puffs to keep her happy. So Memere's bugs are sending her lots of smiles. Beetle bug, snug-a-bug, cuddle bug, doodle bug, and lady bug all in one mess of love. Praying whatever nasty bug is turning three of my kiddos stomach inside out doesn't get to Auntie Kara and Ruby, we want them to fly home healthy. Anna amd Ruby wore matching outfits today, although Ruby wasn't very cooperative we did get a couple cute ones of the girly cousins. The one of them standing was unplanned and they were both in the same position so I pointed and shot. Love these kids, they are fun, especially love being an auntie, I miss her already.

We love you Ruby-doobie-doo.
A good auntie will get this Dora chair in the mail ASAP, I'm not promising you have a good auntie, but you will get the chair eventually.

Hugs and Kisses to Memere and Pappa Lloyd

2012-01-15T15:52:00.002-07:00

I had a lot of great intentions to get pictures of Memere and Pappa Lloyd's five grandkids on here today, but um I haven't taken any. I intended to take pictures of them in their Sunday best, but Owen's Sunday best ended up in not getting out of pajamas (several different pairs). Owen got a stomach bug last night that kept me up all night and him puking every 20 minutes for four hours, it was not fun. But before all that, and when we thought he was fine Ruby and Owen were very loving for the camera. And Ben was sharing some snack with them I don't even remember what but I'm sure I saw it again at some point in the middle of the night.

A List

2012-01-13T20:52:00.003-07:00

Things I've done in the last three days...

-Packed and unpacked at least 20 boxes.
-Welcomed my SIL and niece from CT who are here for a week :)
-Taught kindergarten CCD
-Woke every hour or more one of those nights because Ben gave Owen a yogurt, ugh!
-Coached basketball practice.
-Watched basketball practice.
-Watched kindergarten basketball game.
-Chase Owen everywhere.
-Burnt trash.
-Painted, painted, painted.
-Woke up early, went to bed late.
-Made chicken noodle soup.
-Went to the grocery store three times in one day.
-Made another batch of chicken noodle soup (its really good).
-Helped Anna with a biography report about Eleanor Roosevelt (she got a 105%, she said the teacher said "she went above and beyond")
-Helped Luke with his 100 day poster project...original idea scrapped due to supply issue, made do with something I found in a box, ugh!
-Cut firewood.
-Cleaned cobwebs.
-Drove back and forth to do laundry at the rental.
-Moved the washer and dryer with Ben alone, only dropped the washer twice.
-Broke a step.
-Cleaned the garage.
-Washed walls.
-Vacuumed floors.
-Swept floors.
-Visited with a friend.
-Read to children.
-Rocked Owen to sleep.
-Cooked lasagna twice (the frozen kind, mmm).
-Cleaned the kitchen multiple times.
-Walked the property with my husband, just the two of us (FANTASTIC!)
-Kissed Ruby (my beautiful niece).
-Showered only once, um that's not so good.
-Laid with Beau and discussed his day.
-Alphabetized Beau's spelling words with him.
-Read to Anna.
-Helped Luke do his homework.
-Filled the gas tank on the car.
-Sang a lot of songs.
-SMILED.
-PRAYED.
-LOVED.

It has been an overly busy three days, and I am thankful for every minute of it.

Lunch in Pajamas

2012-01-12T12:26:00.001-07:00

Auntie Kara and Ruby are visiting, we are very busy but I finally grabbed the camera for one shot for Memere and Pappa Lloyd and Uncle Scott to see the Goober Twins.

Santa Came to the New House

2012-01-09T07:41:00.002-07:00

We were up by 6 and over at the new house sometime before 7, it was way too early. Owen really thought we were all crazy and just wanted to go back to bed. Santa brought the tree and everything from the rental so the kids could have Christmas morning at the new house. Ben and I had spent an hour at the house the night before scrubbing the living room floor so that this could happen. It was dirty to say the least. I think the kids had a fantastic Christmas and I know I did. They opened and played while I began cleaning again. Around 11 we were all very hungry having no food at the new house we'd all skipped breakfast. So we packed up and headed back to the rental to eat and get ready for Christmas dinner at Grandma Marnell's. Our first Christmas in Georgia was a success. We have now celebrated Christmas in 8 different states. I think that is plenty.

Christmas Ever

2012-01-09T07:32:00.002-07:00

Christmas Eve day was a quiet morning that led into a sporadic afternoon. Auntie Annette invited us over for appetizers and we exchanged gifts. We were given a fantastic family movie night basket. The kids especially enjoyed the candy. Jordan, Katie's husband plays in a band The Kicks and he brought his guitar because Anna has been showing an interest in playing the guitar. She loved it, I guess I have added another item to my to do list. We posed for pictures, we chatted, and then headed off to the Children's Mass. We had to get there over an hour early just to get seats, and it filled up fast. It was a nice Mass. We indulged on McDonalds for dinner as we wanted to head as quickly as possible to the new house which we took possession of at 6:00 p.m. on Dec. 24th. We were so happy to be going home. We went to the house and made a to do list of all the cleaning that had to be done. Top of the list was getting rid of the smell, we are almost there. Then it was back to the rental to get kids to bed so Santa could come.

The Family.

Anna and Rebecca

A New Year

2012-01-05T08:58:00.003-07:00

Wow, the last couple weeks have flown by, but lots has been accomplished. We started the New Year with going to bed by 10 after having driven back from a fantastic wedding in Louisville. Every day since the 24th we have been working hard to get our new house clean, fresh, and smelling better. We are slowly making progress, at least I think it smells better. Two bedrooms are painted and ready to live in. One bedroom is ready to be primed and I think I have one kitchen/dining floor (its a big one) that is ready to be scrubbed. But this morning I am giving myself a break. Since Ben is flying to the Virgin Islands for 5 days I feel I can take a morning to blog and rest and even watch a little tv. Of course no break is completely a break with Owen around. I have peanut butter smeared on my pants because his snack of apples (from Michigan) and peanut butter was done and his way of telling me was to wipe it one me. It's almost nap time and then I think I might have to accomplish something or read a book in peace. I will be back later today to add pictures, write my a year gone by post and maybe add a little something else if I can think of anything.

Hope

2011-12-23T06:04:00.003-07:00

Hope and faith will get you through it, steadfastness in belief will carry you; tears, screams, dropping to my knees in surrender were my resources when life got difficult this year. We move, we change, we grow, we fail, we make mistakes and yet there is always hope when you believe in Christ. I could list all the things that went wrong this year, but in the end everything went right, not that I would choose to walk through those trials and tribulations again, but walking through them brought us to where we are.
There was a moment, standing in the middle of an empty church...at least to my eyes it was empty, I was depleted, I was feeling alone even though mom and all the kids were in the car in the parking lot, and I didn't feel hopeful. Then as I was feeling self-pity standing in the middle of the church, I looked toward the altar. It wasn't the crucifix that caught my attention, but it was the tabernacle. Even as I stood in the "empty" church I was not alone and His presence was more than enough to fill me. I can't say I walked out healed and hopeful or that I didn't get in the car and be short tempered and a cry baby. But it was a moment that settled inside of me, that I took hold of and started to build upon. It created a spot of peace where the hope could take hold and overcome the fear, the uncertainty that swirled in our life.
Everyone can have hope, but for some it is easier to sustain it. For me hope was visible in a mom and dad who opened a door and took away so much of the strain. I didn't have to maintain a house and raise and discipline four kids alone for months because they were there with me. When I woke up ten times a night with a baby that didn't (doesn't) sleep, I could pass him off and get an hour of sleep. When I needed to run an errand I didn't have to take four kids with me, and when I needed to fulfill some hard tasks without a driver's license (so I couldn't drive) they drove me. It was more than driving me, it was being there for me crying with me, laughing with me and sometimes at me, and enjoying every minute we were able to spend together in a life that I live so far from the family I grew up with.
The greatest thing about that family though is that although we are so far apart in physicality, in spirit we are right there. We are eachothers prayers, thoughts, dreams, and hopes. We all went through our own personal trials and triumphs and we are all still going through them and we will be for the rest of our lives (something I've learned as an adult, it doesn't get easier, but there are those moments big and small that make it all worth it.) But we were with eachother in spirit and for one glorious week this summer, it is never perfect but it is family and I am ever so thankful to have all of my family. Hold onto hope, in the coming trials and triumphs and we will all be happier for it.
Psalm 25:21
May integrity and uprightness protect me, because my hope, LORD, is in you. Psalm 25:21
Lamentations 3:25
The LORD is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him

P.S. Merry Christmas Mom, I love you!!!

I like Skype

2011-12-23T05:59:00.002-07:00

Last night we finished up gifts from my parents. I needed something to occupy kids so that I could do some packing (or read a book). The kids were more than thrilled with their gifts and are very thankful. They stayed up late playing and Anna used Beau's and Owen's and Owen used Beau's gifts, and the boys built legos and played together til 10. Owen was more occupied with one toy than I have ever seen him, and Rebecca got her clothes changed multiple times. It was a very fun evening. And via Skype mom and dad got to be there with us. It wasn't perfect but its better than just the phone. Thanks mom and dad can't wait to see you in person.

Early Christmas Presents

2011-12-21T18:16:00.005-07:00

Huge thanks to Memere and Pappa Lloyd, their present to the kids this year was a basketball hoop, and they absolutely love it. We gave them the basketball hoop after school this week and they have been outside shooting basketballs for hours every day since. Even Ben has spent hours out there with them. It has been raining a few days and the minute the drops stop falling at least one if not two kids are outside shooting, Anna's shirts often have a big wet spot in the middle from catching the ball when it is wet from the rain splattered driveway. They all are already improving on their shots and even Owen loves to be lifted up to put it through the hoop. We might have to get him a small hoop of his own though because my arms get tired lifting him and Ben isn't always home to do it.

Beau resting a moment.

Anna shooting, with Luke waiting his turn.

Beau makes it.

Anna dribbling in.

Ben waiting for the rebound.

Luke's shot.

Anna's shot.

Beau dribbling.

Then their second early present came from Bama and PopPop, thank you. We got annual passes to the Georgia Aquarium, so today was our first visit. They loved every minute of it and they each have their own favorite thing. They'll have to report those some other time because I can't remember tonight. My favorites were the garden eels and the gobi's I could sit and watch them for hours. They are brightly colored and very active. I think Anna would say the sea otters were her favorite, and Luke the penguins. Beau touched a shark, and they all touched sting rays except Owen. Owen loved to watch but was scared if anything swam too close to the glass. The penguins were fun to watch, but for me watching my kids react to it all was the most fun.

Owen looking up at the fish swimming above him.

Beau might know the name of this, I don't.

Watching the fish.

Uncooperative group photo, at least the fish are looking.

O Little Christmas Tree

2011-12-21T18:11:00.002-07:00

We finally got a Christmas tree. It is small and sitting on the table it still is not the center of the room, but its what fits, so we are making do. The kids still enjoyed decorating it, and the bonus is that we can plant it when we get to the new house and in a few years, we will be able to cut it down and use it as our Christmas tree again. Owen was no help, he did break some of our Nativity pieces, but thankfully they weren't from our main set. Beau, Anna and Luke did a fantastic job of putting ornaments on that weren't too heavy for our meager little branches, and they are very happy to have a tree.

What Happens When Mom Organizes Anna's Room

2011-12-12T12:09:00.002-07:00

Owen finds a marker in Anna's closet.

He only decorates one leg.

Then he finds the Barbie car.

But he'd rather ride on it.

Then mom makes him play in his crib so she can finish the job.

Anna's Basketball

2011-12-12T12:02:00.002-07:00

Anna is playing basketball. She is having fun, I wouldn't say she is aggressive she more or less just floats from one end to the other, but that's okay for now. She is learning a lot and she's happy so that's what counts.

Introducing Luke to a Navy Jet

2011-12-11T17:32:00.003-07:00

Many thanks to Dave and Becky Taylor for inviting our family to come see Dave's jet when he flew it into Atlanta this weekend. Dave is a Commander in the Navy and an instructor for young officers in the art of jet flying (or something like that). Dave gave the kids a great tour of his jet and answered all of their questions. It was a fantastic afternoon outing for our family.
Luke wants to be a fighter pilot someday, and after we told Papa Al Gasch this bit of info he told Becky and Dave and it worked out Dave was flying into northern Atlanta this weekend, and they invited us out. Luke loved every minute of it and he kept Avery (their 4 year old) giggling the whole time. Dave and Becky also have a 12 month Owen and it was fun to have Owen squared in the room. It was chilly outside in the wind but it was worth making those memories with the kids. They loved watching Dave take off and come around to tip his wings, as every said, that is her daddy's special way to say bye. A day I don't think Luke will every forget and if he does become a fighter pilot someday, he will look back on this day as a step in that direction, and if he doesn't he will look back on this day as one really awesome day in the life of a six year old. Both of my boys came today this evening at different times and said, "mom this was one fantastic day."

Luke laying under the jet, listening to Dave tell him what was what.

Avery cracking her head up over one of Luke's antics.

Anna got a look into the cockpit.

Luke listening intently as Dave teaches him how to fly the plane (or something like that.)

Beau thought this was really cool too.

A family picture (one my dad will love)

These will get printed.

More Owen Antics

2011-12-04T13:39:00.002-07:00

Look Mom this is how I do it.

And this is my reward.
(Only he didn't get to eat these because I didn't want him to choke. I didn't take pictures of the tantrum that ensued, and I moved the candy bowl.)

In my brother's shoes.
Owen loves to wear other people's shoes.

Sprinkles are delicious!

He can be helpful too.

And he is super cute!

Thanksgiving Day Fun

2011-12-04T13:30:00.002-07:00

Thanksgiving Day was all about family, we chose not to turn on football games and spent the day together enjoying the beautiful weather preparing for our feast later that evening at Grandma Marnell's. We began the day with Mass, came home and hmmed and haaed about what to do, and in the end went to the playground. The kids have been wanting for daddy to come play at this particular playground for this particular apparatus pictured below. And Daddy did not disappoint, Mommy was very worried about the puddle and had daddy not been there we would have avoided said playground equipment, but we played. And of course we paid one of the three did end up in the water, but thankfully it was only feet and we laughed it off. Ben had them going pretty fast, and they had so much fun, I was glad to make it through with only two wet feet and no injuries or tears. We ended up playing ball and wrestling in the grass for much longer than we played on the playground, but it was an absolutely wonderful day.

When we got home Owen spent some time with his tractor in the driveway. He is such a fun little boy.
While Owen entertained us, the rest of us worked on a 10 lb bag of mashed potatoes. Anna and Ben got the pot and water boiling. Beau, Luke and I peeled, Anna rinsed, then Anna and Luke peeled and Beau and I cut while Ben deposited in the pot. When all was said and done Ben mashed them and we were ready to bring them to dinner. I couldn't have asked for a more perfect day.

A Fantastic Weekend

2011-11-20T15:04:00.003-07:00

Friday night we had Beau's birthday party with 5 other ten year olds. "Dude" was heard more times than I could count, but they are all super kids with great manners and Beau had a lot of fun. Luke also had his first basketball practice. He didn't want to go because he didn't want to miss out on Beau's party but I made him and he was really happy he went. He got his uniform, chose jersey #1 and got his ball. He loved it.

Saturday was filled with Ben's PT test, the kids and I went to watch and play and I timed his run. He did well and was happy when it was over. We did some chores around the house and then we had Anna's first game at 2, her team lost a lot to a little, but she learned a lot and tried hard. She had two steals and I loved watching her play. We came home for the afternoon and played outside, ate an early dinner then it was back to the gym for Beau's first game and my debut as a basketball coach. Beau was so nervous before the game, but he did awesome. He learned so much, listened really well and is excited for the rest of the season. I loved every minute of it, I was loud and intense, and I called an integral timeout that saved us a turn over. I got a small lecture by the ref for going outside my coaching box, and had many compliments after the game about how involved I was. I'm not sure Ben really enjoyed watching his wife be quite so loud, but I am hoping he gets used to it, this just may be the start of my coaching career, I absolutely loved it. Oh and we did win by four 29-25. Don't I make fourth grade basketball sound like fun.
This picture was taken just to capture the kids in the middle of the day, the sun was all wrong but I like it anyway.

Today Auntie Annette and Uncle Ray came over for breakfast.
Owen got his first hair cut by a true professional, one who showed more love than any other would. I won't mention she pinched his skin with the scissors because she felt so bad about it but he was really fine. He looks older and he is so handsome when I'm not squeezing his cheeks to hold his head still. Then we all went and looked at the house we are hoping to buy. We appreciate their opinions and are so thankful to have family here to be involved with our big life decisions.
Now it is off to Stephanie and Brian's (Ben's cousin) for homemade cookies and pizza.
Life is GREAT! (Beau likes to capitalize in papers for school to emphasize words it makes me laugh.)

We are also enjoying just the beginning of family time, the kids and Ben have the whole week off.

He's One Decade...Ten Years of Adventure

2011-11-17T06:28:00.004-07:00

The baby I brought home from the hospital.

This grin, the one that got him into trouble and out of trouble. So adorable and yet so challenging, this little boy was. His love of the water in any form started early. He says he will someday be a marine biologist, and maybe he will. He's not the best fisherman because he isn't a patient kind of person, but he will cheer the loudest for anyone that catches a fish, while he is exploring whatever else is going on around him. This picture makes me remember all the fantastic days of being this little boys mommy, I am so blessed.
At the liver in Louisville, KY. I was sure he would fall in but Ben was all for letting him explore, and he didn't fall in. He had a great time doing whatever it is he does when he gets to the edge of a body of water and looks into til he finds something interesting. Seems like this is the way he lives his life on the perimeter until he finds something that peaks his interest and then he jumps in with both feet, gathering all the information he can and making sure he becomes an expert on the topic. If I knew half of what he was talking about sometimes it would make conversations easier.
In the sand playing with his siblings on Lake Michigan in 2009. He's lost his little boy looks and I can see lots of who he is now. When it comes to his siblings, he is in charge, but he loves them unfailingly. Last week he was pushing Owen in his stroller and he hit a pothole covered in leaves so he hadn't seen it coming, he was going fast. The stroller tipped over, end over end, Owen was upside down with his head a centimeter from the road, I was too far behind to get there but Beau thankfully controlled the tip by slowing it down and then did his best to upright the stroller and his brother all in own swoop. Beau's a tall kid but he's a stick so the fact he accomplished this task before I got there was impressive. He didn't panic and he didn't get upset. We were both thankful Owen was fine and I learned I could count on Beau in a stressful situation.

Beau last week on the beach in Florida. He doesn't stay nearby, he explores the length of the beach until I say "that's too far". He doesn't go with anyone although if he can get me to go with him just the two of us he is one happy kid. He craves his one on one time with me. But he carried this stick up and down the beach just looking, exploring, inspecting whatever he found. I don't know what he will choose to do in life, but I am proud of the young man he is becoming. Beau has challenged me, encouraged me, delighted me, frightened me, laughed with and at me, and he is a true blessing and I am honored to call him my son.

Happy Birthday to a wonderful son, brother, grandson, nephew and friend. I love you Beau.

Beau's Beach Day

2011-11-10T19:14:00.003-07:00

Starting to see the man in the boy.

But only in certain looks at certain times because he is still all boy.

Beau opted to be buried in more of a crouched position.
He was direct in his instructions, but the result was the same.

Buried up to his chin.

Then he busts free, I love his intensity.

Beau does everything with intensity, and explores it all.
I loved observing him take in every detail, wander down the beach on his own to see what else he could find, then calling to me to come look at whatever it was. Sometimes having to call to him because he'd wandered a little too far.

Owen in the Sand

2011-11-10T19:09:00.002-07:00

Content to watch, didn't want to get too close to that rough water.

Stopping to watch his siblings.

I love the tongue sticking out just a little.

Love his sandy toes.

So tired.

Owen played in the sand for hours, digging, burying, throwing, eating. He was so tired by the end he would grab his sand covered pacifier and sit on the towel but he refused to fall asleep, he didn't want to miss anything.

Anna Skydiving

2011-11-10T19:07:00.000-07:00

Anna was insistent upon me taking her picture of her towel flying in the wind like a parachute, and when she insists I oblige, it's just easier that way. :)

Playing Together

2011-11-10T19:00:00.002-07:00

One of the best parts of the trip for me was watching my kids play together, help each other and enjoy each other's company. Owen would regulary wreck their castle, but they would just rebuild. In the waves they would fall and help each other up or hold hands so that they wouldn't fall as easily. It was fun to sit back and observe. Beau can be bossy, Anna is the peace maker, Luke will just go do his own thing, and Owen causes chaos. They all play their roles well and each can take on anothers role when necessary except Owen who is the mastermind of trouble.

Four Babes on The Beach

2011-11-10T18:59:00.001-07:00

This is as close as I got to getting a picture of all four of them looking at the camera.
Owen's pacifier, Anna's goofy look, Luke's grimace, and Beau's longing to get back to the water.
But we tried.

Luke On The Beach

2011-11-10T18:51:00.002-07:00

The end of Luke's day, buried in sand...
sand pillow and sand blanket.
After an afternoon of being on the move,
after going back and looking at the pictures it was no wonder he stayed so still in that sand.

These moments of pure joy are ones I will carry with me for a long time.
I have so many pictures with the kids mouths wide open expressing amazement and joy from their day at the ocean.

Tigger Too

2011-10-31T19:33:00.000-06:00

The Hula Girl

2011-10-31T19:30:00.001-06:00

Luke Skywalker

2011-10-31T19:26:00.001-06:00

The Zombie

2011-10-31T19:19:00.001-06:00

Halloween Costumes

2011-10-31T19:16:00.001-06:00

Decorating Pumpkin Sugar Cookies

2011-10-31T09:10:00.002-06:00

Because there isn't enough sugar involved with Halloween, I made the kids sugar cookies with pumpkin cookie cutters and they got to decorate those yesterday too. Mandy, Erin and Great Grandma came to enjoy the activities with us and Erin chose to use the green frosting on her pumpkin, Luke was unable to understand this decision thus the funny look on his face.

Ben enjoying his cookie before we called the kids in. He rarely partakes in the desserts I back so I really enjoy when he loves what I make. He particularly likes my frosting, although he made this batch colored it and everything. It was a little thin for my preferences, but I didn't tell him that and he won't know unless he reads this which may or may not happen. It still tasted delicious and I was sure to have plenty.

Beau enjoying his first bite.

Erin and her green cookie, she was fun to watch.

Proof that Great Grandma was there.
The lighting in these pictures is terrible and I didn't take the time to edit them, but its the memories that matter, and this weekend was full of making memories.

Carving Owen's Pumpkin

2011-10-31T09:04:00.001-06:00

Convincing Owen to reach in the pumpkin.

Getting a little closer to that stuff.

Mom, are they crazy?

Here he goes.

No way, that's cold and yucky.

He ended up watching and didn't help at all. But Ben and Anna enjoyed making him a crazy pumpkin. I loved watching it all, such a great daddy and such fun kids.

The Jack-o-Lanterns

2011-10-31T09:00:00.002-06:00

Last year we bought a clearance pumpkin carving kit.

So Anna chose the cat.

Owen's was a collaboration of Anna Ben and Owen.
We decide he was a drunk pumpkin,
and Beau's comment was, "that's how Owen will look in 20 years"
I sure hope not but it was kind of a humorous comment.Luke chose a fun smiley face.

Beau chose a wolf which I ended up doing most of (all) the work for.
When I was finished he decided it wasn't as good as the picture, guess he'll be doing all his own work next year.

We had fun.

Daddy Feed Me

2011-10-31T08:57:00.002-06:00

When Owen wants to eat, he lets us know.
He gets his plate and spoon out of the cupboard and drawer and stands by the stove waiting.
Today Ben was making him an egg.

Phone Snapshots

2011-10-31T08:48:00.002-06:00

Saturday after a wonderful afternoon at Grandmas we went home and had a campfire.

Owen watches everyone else and loves to sneak into this chair,
but I'm afraid of what he might do.

Anna right after her haircut, so cute.

Today At the Pumpkin Patch

2011-10-28T13:45:00.000-06:00

Hat Day

2011-10-25T07:53:00.002-06:00

Today was hat day for Red Ribbon week or something like that.
Anna had this hat, but the shirt is new.
I'm going through her drawers while she is at school and pulling out stuff that is too small.
The ruffle skirt you can only slightly see, but this outfit is a very common theme for her right now. She wears a skirt leggings and t-shirt everyday or close to it. On cooler days I can sometimes talk her into a pair of jeans. She loves ruffles. Her hat is a little crooked, but she insisted I didn't know what I was doing and had to put it on herself.
Love this girl, but she is soooo girly.
She is all about tigers and cheetahs (big cats, but not lions, Luke likes those) so she adored this shirt.

Pictures from today

2011-10-24T17:41:00.004-06:00

Anna's haircut, at the end of the day right before bed, still cute though, she probably should have brushed it but its late and she's tired.
A little aside, she spilled something on her new shirt at lunch right by the cat so she came home and said, "Mom, look the cat threw up." Ha she is so funny.

Putting on the spidey mask

almost there

ta da

Girls Day Out

2011-10-24T06:47:00.002-06:00

Saturday Anna and I had a girls day out. It was fantastic, nothing too crazy but lots of time together. First we went to The Am Girl Doll Store in Alpharetta, where we got Rebecca's hair done. Anna has become a stylist as of late and will do her doll's hair often but it just needed some professional help. Now that we know what we (she) was doing wrong I think between the two of us we should be able to keep it looking good on our own. While we waited for her doll to be finished we grabbed lunch at the Cheesecake Factory, delicious, and the oreo cheesecake (Anna's pick) we shared was really yummy but I think she ate more than I did. We stopped at a few clothing stores supplementing Anna's wardrobe with some needed (and not so needed but they were on clearance) items. Shopping with Anna is always interesting, her style is all her own and if she had her way her cousins would get a new wardrobe too. After our shopping adventure we picked up Rebecca who looked fabulous and headed to Anna's haircut. Anna got about 4 inches cut off and it looks fabulous. She loves it too. I thought we'd head home after that but Anna had no desire to go home and asked to go to another mall, ugh on a Saturday. However, I obliged because well I enjoyed being out and about too without a one-year-old to take in and out, the freedom was nice. Anna texted my good friend Tammy and next thing I knew Anna had plans for the rest of the day. So I took Anna to Tammy's hotel where she hung out with Hannah (a fantastic 13 year old) and Tammy. She had a great evening and I met her at the little league game that Tammy was in town for her son Ethan. We had a great time watching the game and headed home about 10. Luke and Owen joined us for the game while Beau and Ben took in a haunted house. It was a great day.

Thank You Aunt Fran

2011-10-21T09:18:00.003-06:00

This morning it was cold enough to wear a jacket, which I enjoy but these southerners sure don't. My Aunt Fran in Michigan gave Owen this jacket this summer, and he looked so cute I had to snap a picture. He posed quickly with mouth wide open every time. One of them he closed his eyes. He is too funny and loved putting his jacket on because he understood it meant he got to go outside, he would live out there if we let him.

I had hoped to get up and out early to go to Women in Faith Bible Study at church this morning, but unfortunately Luke has been having severe stomach aches the last three days. So I took him to the doctor...he has strep throat, never would have guessed that...no fever no sore throat just severe stomach pain. Now he is on antibiotics and we will all be happier soon. He may be sick and in pajamas all day but he still is cute.

Owen On-Goings

2011-10-20T14:23:00.003-06:00

Ben was out of town, so Owen wouldn't go to bed.
He had been screaming for several minutes in his crib so I gave up.
Owen is a sweat machine, but Anna and I made the most of him staying up late.

We gave him a cool hair-do.

Owen has been watching his siblings color a lot due to homework.
He has finally learned to stay on the paper.

Each object in the picture has something to do with Owen.
He wears everyones shoes and leaves them where we can't find them.
He likes water in a cup nearby.
The bucket has not stayed in one place all day.
The plastic bag is for glue sticks for the hot glue gun, he has emptied it 20 times this week, its kept under the sink because we are in the midst of several school projects.
The dog bowl my serves to feed the dogs and entertain Owen.

He has really learned to pose for the camera.

Something else he did today that I had no idea he had started was he held the pen/pencil correctly.
It took several tries to get him to stay focused coloring while I snapped a picture so it is a little out of focus, but I think it is a pretty good grip for a 16 month old. He'll be writing his name next week I'm just sure of it.

This is what happens when you take away the elmers glue stick that the kids are using when I won't hot glue it for them. He had only dug his finger in a little ways when I realized what he had.

Yes, the feet are always dirty. He sneaks outside whenever someone opens the door. He is worse than the dogs about that.
I spared you the snot running down to his chin picture.

In other random news...I'm not sure I really enjoy my phone ringing and them asking for Anna, really are we already there? They just saw each other all day what could they have to talk about.

Anna's Music Performance

2011-10-17T19:41:00.004-06:00

Anna had a performance at school the other night. You can see her body moving she was very into it. She did a great job, seemed to know every word and was fun to watch. Owen could have been quieter. Aunt Annette came and watched with us and that meant a lot to Anna (as well as to me) to have extra family that loves us support our kids in something they do was really special. Its time I start getting the kids involved in more activities, just on the list of things I need to do.

The video wouldn't upload, I will try to get it somewhere today.

October 15

2011-10-17T19:04:00.004-06:00

It's a couple days late, but I didn't forget I just didn't know what I wanted to post. October 15th is recognized as National Day of Pregnancy and Infant Loss awareness day and not that I don't remember all the time that there are two more children in our family but on this particular day I think about it a little more, sometimes the feelings of longing and missing those little souls are stronger and penetrate deeper and I hold on a little tighter to what I have here and know one day I'll reunite in heaven with my loves there. Tonight I came across a website that makes cards that say things I want to say to my friends or I would have liked said to me. I think it is a great idea and I'm going to get some to have on hand for that friend or acquaintance to let them know their baby mattered just as each one of them matter. The web site is http://lostforwordscardline.com/
If you know someone that could use a card please send them one or ask me to, I'd be happy to recognize a life that was brief but that was.
God Bless all those who have experienced the loss of a child be it through miscarriage, still births, illnesses, or accidents, know your child is remembered.

Beau Mows

2011-10-13T13:41:00.002-06:00

Beau completed his first lawn job this weekend. He had to use both feet to push the brake in but he managed just fine. He mowed for at least an hour, at one point I offered to take over but he insisted he keep going. He finally got tired of the vibrations so I finished up, but he had done almost all the backyard, I just cleaned it up and it was a large backyard. I was really proud of him although I was having minor heart palpatations the whole time he was on that tractor. I mean there are moving parts and rotating blades and all sorts of things and any lack of concentration could cause an injury and Beau's reputation isn't one of intense concentration unless there is a book in his hands. He did great though, and I might let him do it again when he's 15. Although I know next summer he will be the primary lawn mower, and I'll just get to finish it up. I enjoy mowing it means I have time to myself to ponder life. My children are growing up and it is fun to watch even if it does cause anxiety.

The Hay Loft

2011-10-13T13:30:00.003-06:00

We spent the weekend down in southern Georgia, on my great uncles 40 acres. He is a few old barns and lots of great trees. I loved taking in the kids pictures up in the hay loft. Anna loved exploring and was happy to pose. Beau was too busy to take time away from his outdoor adventures, but cooperated. Luke was slightly scared of the height. Getting Owen to look at the camera instead of everything else was a challenge, he was awed by being up so high and didn't want to come down.

Playground Fun

2011-10-03T18:05:00.003-06:00

Ben went to a wedding in Connecticut this weekend, so the kids and I ventured to a park we hadn't been to before. It was large and lots of fun. There were climbing things and a large playground for the big kids, and a great fenced in smaller playground for the little kids. Unfortunately Owen didn't get to play on the smaller playground because I couldn't keep an eye on the big kids from there. So he just watched and played with wood chips and occassionally his siblings would take him down the slide. It was fun to watch them stop and give Owen some attention without being asked. I did have to ask one or the other to watch him so I could lift Luke or take a picture of Anna or Beau. But they were always willing, and would follow him wherever he went. Luke and Anna even gave him a ride on a spinning thing, but I didn't let them do that more than twice because he'd get so dizzy and then fall down and I didn't want him to get hurt. We did have a great time, my hope was that Owen would be tired out and sleep through church. Ha, he was the worst he's ever been in Mass that evening, we will avoid Saturday night Mass in the future.

Owen on the ground.

Luke half way up.

Beau on top.

Anna on top.

Where is My Baby Going?

2011-10-03T11:00:00.002-06:00

His baby face is fading...
His chubby cheeks are thinning...
His independence in pushing forward...
His fine baby hair is diminishing...
His blond is turning darker...
The bottle is no longer...
My baby is growing into a toddler and I'm not ready.
This picture shows it more than others so maybe I should just delete it,
then it won't be happening, right?
But he'll always be my baby, they all are still my babies just grown versions of them.

Natural Beauty Haiku

2011-10-03T07:40:00.004-06:00

Anna's true beauty
shines on the inside always
radiates outwards.

Captivating smile
Expressive in all she does
Gestures add delight.

After Homework

2011-09-27T07:19:00.002-06:00

After school Anna found a kit to paint two horses. It had been in her closet, but it was one of those things that just got stashed in the back corner when unpacking. She got it out and asked to paint. I knew it would take all of her concentration so I made her do her homework and shower first. She gave me a little eye roll, but obliged the conditions. Then she painted. She was so focused. There were two horses, a mare and a foal. She loved it.
So now I know what to look for to put in her stocking. She really does enjoy artsy things.
There is a pottery place not too far from her and I think we are going to have to make a trip there in the next few months.

I love how focused she was, she completely ignored me taking pictures.
She simply didn't care, she was in her own world and had no need to pose for the camera.
She'd purse her lips when she was working on small spots.

I also like how her hair falls in her face but she doesn't even care she is too busy to notice.

This is the finished foal, I didn't get a picture of the finished mare, but they were both well done.

This is Beau after homework, I have withheld his favorite game from him for the last couple months for no other reason then I could. We don't play a lot of video games, although he could easily get lost in them and play for hours so sometimes I just act like they don't exist.
Yesterday though I obliged his request and he got to play. The internet didn't cooperate so it was very frustrating, but not once did he lose his cool, which in Beau's world is a major accomplishment and a real show of growth. He also had some homework right next to him and when the game fritzed he'd work on the assignment (not due today), I couldn't believe the quality of his work. It was better than if I had just made him sit and do it. Since I didn't force him to just sit and write but let him do two things at once the work was better, more creative, and well written. I don't know that he will get to do both at once often, but it definitely gives me a resource when he's struggling to focus. He has been known to read three books at once, sometimes he just needs to let his brain bounce I think.

Luke did all his homework for the week last night so that he could have his turn on the computer tonight. He also goes to bed about an hour earlier than Beau and Anna much to his dismay. Owen was also in bed, not that he sleeps these days, but he did go down without a tear. I really look forward to being done with teething although we have a long way to go.

The Big Kids

2011-09-23T13:57:00.003-06:00

I got a whole week of Beau, Anna and Luke home this past week and while it was work and discipline and raised mommy voice (maybe occasionally a yell or four) it was a wonderful week. Beau was the roughest, when his schedule is changed he struggles, but yesterday proved all my lecturing was getting through. He was helpful, kind, endearing, and extremely pleasant to be around. Anna is and has always been pleasant 98% of the time, easy to get along with does what she's asked, but 2% of the time her attitude flares and world watch out when it does. Her flares this week were quickly contained and very few tears followed, but she has a way with words that is going to make us laugh but could easily get her into trouble too. She is still a tremendous big sister and always the first I ask to help with Owen. Luke is walking the line between being a little boy and a big boy, he wants to whine but knows he shouldn't, he tries to hang with the big kids but wants to hang back and curl up with his mommy still too. He had to take a nap one day because he was so tired, but I didn't tell him to he asked if he could. He is always so animated and still the best noise maker ever. I love this picture of the three of them. They were thrilled that I was making them stand still at Stone Mountain, Luke's making weird facial expressions, Anna's fixing her hair, and Beau looks bored. Can't believe how far we've come but looking forward to all that we still have before us. Owen is pulling up the rear but making sure he is part of all the action.
Oh yeah and I love these children and the one not pictured beyond any words could express, I love being their mother and I am overwhelmingly blessed because of them.

After Owen Went Down the Hill

2011-09-23T09:26:00.002-06:00

Owen is never clean.
Even when he's playing in suds.
He ends up in the bath even though he looks like he just took one.
He acts like he's trying to help, but he's not.
He is really cute doing it though.

The Price of Five Minutes of Peace

2011-09-23T09:24:00.001-06:00

It was a healthy snack, a sliced banana with 1/2 tbsp of Nutella.

My Apple Pie

2011-09-19T17:18:00.002-06:00

I made my first pie on Friday. Although it was a store bought crust, I still thought it tasted pretty good. Luke said he wished he liked it because he really wanted to like it, but he didn't like it. I had a coupon for a free bag of apples with the purchase of two pillsbury pie crusts so I used it. That means I still have one box of pie crust left. I am going to maybe make a peach pie, or just do a chicken pot pie. But I thought my first attempt was a success and I am not so afraid of pie anymore, although Ben is still in charge of the holiday pies, pumpkin and pecan.

Owen Overcoming an Obstacle

2011-09-19T09:47:00.003-06:00

Our house sits in the bottom of a bowl,
or that's how I would describe it.
The yard goes up at an angle all the way around the house.
The front yard is probably the steepest.
On Saturday Owen ambled up the front hill.
Once he got a little more than half way up he sat down.
Then he started calling for help.

No one came, but I grabbed the camera.

So he decided to try to get down on his own.
He took tiny steps.

It was precarious, he went slow.

And even being very precautious he still landed on his bum multiple times.

He thought I came to rescue him.

He realized I hadn't and got up to finish the trek on his own.

Proud of himself.

Hi Mom, I'm almost there.

He watched his feet the rest of the way down, and he made it without another fall.

Luke's Shiner

2011-09-19T09:40:00.002-06:00

Luke got a black eye at school on Friday.
The nurse called right at the end of the day to tell me he had been hurt.
He'd run into another child on the playground.
This picture was Saturday morning.

Saturday afternoon.

This morning.

He was concerned it would be permanent like a scar but once we reassured him it wouldn't he's been fine. I'm ready for it to go away. There is a big bruise on his cheek too but it doesn't show up well in the pictures.

5x7 Folded Card

2011-09-19T09:37:00.001-06:00

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Chattahoochee River National Rec Area

2011-09-15T07:55:00.002-06:00

We've gone to the Chattahoochee River twice now. Both times were fantastic, we just love to enjoy the outdoors. The first time we didn't wear swimsuits but we still ended up in the river. The second time we brought a raft and life jackets and although we'd really prefer a canoe we all fit in that will have to wait til a summer or two first we need a house. The kids love the water, Luke liked having a life jacket on this second visit, Owen was a little more tired this time so stayed on my hip more. The first time we went he wouldn't let us pick him up. I don't get a lot of pictures because the kids want me with them in the water. So here are a few although the one of Anna is from Stone Mountain, i just liked it too much and forgot to include it in the last post.
Looking forward to another weekend of fun.

Stone Mountain - mostly pictures

2011-09-15T07:49:00.003-06:00

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We went to Stone Mountain last Saturday. We climbed up one side and then viewed a laser show on the other. It is a slightly strenuous climb, but lots of fun. It cracks me up that the kids add more effort to their climb by jumping from stone to stone, climbing on extra rocks and running all the way down. They had so much fun and so did we that I know we will go back many times. Owen did great on the way up in the backpack for Ben, on the way down I took him and he was tired so he was a little cranky but not bad. As a family we love to be outdoors so this activity was perfect for us, I think my friend Melissa (who just spent a wonderful week with us) enjoyed it too.

Big Boys

2011-09-08T07:10:00.003-06:00

My camera lens needs to be taken in the auto focus isn't working.
But these were cute random shots of Beau and Luke.
They each had a haircut a day or two before I took these pictures.
Six and Nine today Sixteen and Nineteen doesn't seem far enough away.

Owen's Antics

2011-09-08T07:05:00.003-06:00

Owen loves yogurt, so happy I found lactose free yogurt.
He uses a spoon til he gets to the bottom.

Ben was in charge the other night.

The word on the street is he shared some of the dog's food and he liked it.

He stacked these blocks all on his own.
He learns a lot from his siblings.

Including the joy in knocking them down.

His favorite activity when he wants our attention...
sure to get him into trouble.

Funny Kid Quips

2011-09-08T06:58:00.002-06:00

Anna - While at the swimming pool on a cooler day..."Mom, feel Owen, he feels shelly." Shelly, huh, what are you talking about...oh he feels clammy, that's what she meant. So funny.

Beau- Looking through his goggles in the water, "Mom you can see the film on top of the water." Thanks Beau that was interesting.

Owen has found a new game that he loves, he spins in circles til he falls down, we are all very amused by it.

I know there are more but they are evading me at the moment, could be because Owen is being less than cooperative, so as I think of them I'll have to come update this post.

Life

2011-09-08T06:28:00.002-06:00

I find myself on the verge of tears almost daily sometimes hourly. There is no real reason for the tears other than a multitude of reasons, some are happy, some are sad, some just are. Sometimes I just think I am so full that something has to spill out because I just can't contain myself anymore. It has been a very long four plus months, some of the longest I can remember. They didn't fly by in any way shape or form, rather at times they crept and then sometimes they crawled occasionally during a particular good week when I was looking over oceans, they strolled amiably, but flew would not be a word I would use to describe the last four months.
None of what happened would I have planned for or predicted, but I definitely learned multitudes from each and every situation. I grew closer to my parents while feeling stagnant in other relationships. I watched my kids grow and change not really knowing where I fit with them because our lives had changed so much in such a short time. I struggled to communicate via the telephone when I didn't have words to say or I was too tired to think or I didn't want to face whatever conversation it was that needed to be faced. I flew more miles in one summer than in five years and that in itself is an experience. I traveled alone and as the plane took off the tears that spilled were again for so many reasons I don't think I could even fathom the depths of them, but leading the list was thankfulness.
Thankfulness thats what weighs so heavily on me now, this will be one of the greatest Thanksgivings for me because so much happened this year that just ends in one big thank you to so many people and ultimately to the Heavenly Father. The grace heaped upon us has been heavy so heavy that at times no scratch that all the time I feel extremely unworthy of it all. From the little details to the much bigger ones, our lives have been choreographed by the greatest Master of all time, it hasn't been easy but it has been worth it.
This last month has been an eye opener in the heaps of grace bestowed. School has been amazing for the kids, they all fit with very few hiccups and their happiness is palpable. What more could a mom ask for. I wanted to be more involved in our church, they called and asked me to teach a CCD kindergarten class. Now I'm involved. I had a lot of qualms over the pediatrician Ben had chosen for the kids, Aunt Annette introduced me to the front office manager of a pediatricians office at church one Sunday, I was all set to get the information so I could switch to her office, after a few questions I learned it was the exact same doctor Ben had already signed up the kids with. We decided to get a small car instead of two large vehicles, meaning more sacrifice on Ben's part then mine but he did it willingly and we left the dealership with a new(er), a free warranty, and cash in hand because the truck was worth more. The house is under contract, not by any means a small thing in life...but the contract is more to us than just selling a house, it is being able to let go of the past and truly only focus on the future. It is watching the weight that has tied Ben down with stress over selling the house slowly come undone (he needs the close date to come and go before he takes the whole deep breath). It is the peace that has settled in the house as that stress has lifted.
Grace is walking into church on Sunday and knowing where we are going to sit because there is already family there waiting for us. Something in all our years of moving we have never had and now it is too wonderful for words. Not only for Ben and I but for the kids watching them jockey for position to sit next to Uncle Ray or Aunt Annette or Kylie because their family is bigger than just our four walls.
The four walls we live in aren't my favorite part of life right now, but I am thankful for them, if this last four months has taught me anything it is that stepping stones are a very fundamental part of life for which I should give great thanks. The grace of living here has already been made blatantly clear as the schools will redistrict in this area next year so I have no guilt over changing the kids school because it may happen anyway and if they don't move their friends might. In closing I will quote the verse that has been very present to me in this phase of our lives...Ecclesiastes 3:1 "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven."

P.S. These words were written for others to enjoy but mostly they are written for me so that I can remember this feeling when it isn't bubbling under the surface, when the tears aren't easily flowing, when I'm not feeling like being thankful. Rereading old blog posts has been more rewarding to me some days than I could have ever imagined.

This Weeks Wednesday Words

2011-08-31T07:24:00.002-06:00

...Luke wore 12-18 month jean shorts to school today.
...Anna put her book next to her bed and we couldn't find it for 12 hours.
...Beau got a homework pass so he may never do homework again if he gets his way.
...Owen won't stay off the coffee table, and he doesn't sit on it he stands on it.
...Anna's hair and outfits really matter these days.
...Luke's school work is done to perfection, his teachers continue to comment on how nice his work is.
...Owen just climbed the kitchen stool, that is not safe.
...Beau likes television too much, but he still reads over one hundred pages a day so maybe I shouldn't complain.
...Anna finally took her first AR test, and since we found her book hopefully we're starting a new trend.
...Ben went to Tennessee and back and is now working in the living room, I'm still unsure about this work from home day, he's here but he's not.
...We got an offer on the house, now we counter and play the waiting game.
...God is in the smallest details, He has been showing me over and over again the last couple weeks, if I just trust He will come through. Maybe not in my time, but in His and His is always perfect.

Luke is Six

2011-08-27T19:05:00.003-06:00

Happy Birthday To You!
Luke turned 6 today, we are so proud of the boy he is becoming.
Luke is the cup is half full kind of kid. No matter what he always seems to see the good things in life.
Kindergarten has been fantastic, and on Monday he gets a new teacher and a whole new class, but his take on it is that he gets to make more friends.
Luke makes us laugh multiple times a day.
Luke laughs all day.
He is definitely are loudest child, we all know where Luke is and what he's doing.
He can make sound effects for any and all toys including imaginary ones.
There is no shortage of fun when Luke is around everything can be turned into a game.
He has taught Owen how to play cars and make car noises.
Luke's smile can light up the darkest night.
Luke's most famous mark in life is his monkey hugs and we are privileged to get those hugs every day, being Luke's mom is a true pleasure and he is one unique treasure.
We Love You Luke.

Luke's cake was decorated by Luke.
It is mud and bugs and worms and if you look closely some worms are crawling over bugs back into the dirt.

Having Great Grandma Marnell at Luke's birthday was very special.
He was showing her his cake here.

Killer Smile

Intent on Dad lighting the candles.

Showing Dad where to cut the cake.

Opening gifts...so expressive.

Thanks Cousin Josh for coming to the party and holding Owen. Luke loved his transformer, not sure how much Owen liked being held.

We greatly appreciate being able to share Luke's birthday with so much family. Thank you Auntie Annette, Josh, Stephanie, Mandy, Aunt Pam, Great Grandma Marnell and Erin for coming and celebrating Luke's day with us. We are so thankful to live near family.

Owen's Thinking About The East Coast

2011-08-26T07:48:00.002-06:00

Owen brought me this shirt several times today.
So I finally put it on him even though its too big.
He cheesed it up good for a few pictures.

Daisy, My Love

2011-08-25T07:01:00.004-06:00

Or more accurately Owen's love...

Daisy I have a pony for you.

Here, take it.

Oh bother, I'll come to you.
Oh he's coming around yeah!

I'm Listening, tell me Owen.

Oh Owen you are a story teller.
I see your mouth (close it would you)
Now I must check out your mouth.

See, I'm already gagging girls.

He left me, what will I ever do.

He came back, and I think he's smitten.
She's right, I'm quite taken with this beauty.

For those friends and family who prayed for Daisy almost one year ago, when she was 2 lbs 11 oz losing weight and early as could be, look at her now. Thanks for praying. She is amazing, you could never tell she came 11 weeks too early. Owen and Daisy have always shared a special bond, he used to sit on her even when she was only 6 or 7 lbs, and she'd smile. After being apart for three months it was like they picked up where they left off just more mobile.

Anna's Pleasures

2011-08-25T06:55:00.002-06:00

Anna did her own hair this morning for school,
which she does most mornings.
Today however, she was pleased as punch to show me her creation.
She has been reading a lot of American Girl doll books and one of the dolls, "Julie"
wears her hair just like this.
She just gets more girlie by the day, sometimes that scares me.
But I also love watching her grow into a beautiful young woman.

A Squirrely Situation

2011-08-25T06:44:00.004-06:00

Why are my children staring out the window?

That is a great story to tell.
My Great Uncle Pete spent some time with us in Michigan this summer, he is 85 and lives alone on a large farm in southern Georgia.
Well I guess entertainment in Georgia isn't exactly something I'd ever seen before.
Uncle Pete tied peanuts in some cord and hung it from the bird feeder to give the squirrels some fun.
The kids thought the whole thing was amazing and spent a long time watching this squirrel get every last peanut from the cord.
Beau loved it and sent Uncle Pete a letter including some of these pictures.
In return yesterday in the mail Beau received a package with a peanut plant (literally one pulled out of the ground) and a bag of peanuts.
Also included was a hand written note from Uncle Pete telling Beau how peanuts grow.
Treasures for sure.

I call the above picture "squirrel nuts" due to the appropriately placed peanut.

He always climbed down and huddled once he got a nut off.
Not entertainment I would have ever dreamed of but it was fun to watch.

"O" The Trouble

2011-08-24T07:00:00.002-06:00

...Owen loves shoes, he brings them to you all day to put them on he doesn't care if they match.
...He only eats the marshmallows from a handful of luck charms.
...He never misses a candid camera moment, he always poses.

...Owen asleep is rare, but it is so peaceful and adorable.

...Owen loves breakfast, this was the morning the movers arrived, I wouldn't let him eat til I had his highchair and I only had the bottom of his bottle for an unbreakable bowl.
...when Owen's done eating he throws whatever dish is in front of him
...he says thankyou, please, your welcome, more, but seems to have missed the lesson on all done.

...is he really only 14 months because he seems older but I still want him to be a baby.
...taking siblings pictures on picture day, he had to have his turn too.
...he cheesed it pretty good.

...he loves to be near his siblings, although they don't love it as much.

...while I have been typing Owen has strewn a roll of garbage bags through the house and around the furniture, so now I get to roll them back up.
...yesterday it was a tinful of crayons.
...then a tub of colored pencils, got to love (or loathe) the boxes of school supplies around for homework.
...Owen is fun even though he is A LOT of work, his kisses and hugs make it all worth it.
...and his smile could melt anyone's heart.

Just Some Pics and Random Moments

2011-08-24T06:48:00.002-06:00

Beau has earned 73 AR points, in AR world that is a lot, he is the highest in his class and he has earned his whole class a donut party. He is very excited about it and there is finally a really positive reward for all his reading. A reward his siblings see and his classmates see and reap the benefits of making his reading cool and part of all of it. We are really happy with the way Beau's school year has started out.
Luke is doing great. He is so social. He came home on Monday to tell me about a new student, but bummed because she didn't sit at his table. I asked where she came from...he said, "through the door like everybody else." Anna and I had a good giggle over that and I tried to explain to him what I meant like he came from Montana, he said he didn't know and didn't care.
Anna is happy to have all her Barbies back and the boys live in bionicle lego land most of the time even now that they have tv they still played in their rooms for over an hour yesterday.
I'll comment on Owen with pictures in the next post.

Amazing Anna

2011-08-23T11:29:00.002-06:00

Anna is flourishing here as a southern belle. She loves school has many many friends and seems to really enjoy school. I am excited to be Anna's room mom this year as a chance to do something special for her. Being the only girl and in the middle and probably the most cooperative sometimes she gets lost in the shuffle. She is so helpful with Owen that I turn to her a lot when I need to get things done and she rarely if ever says she doesn't want to watch him. I love this video because it shows just how far she has come in life, always my most cautious in the water and in life she is starting to let go a little bit and push her own boundaries without my pushing her. She is a true treasure.

Oops

2011-08-23T11:27:00.002-06:00

Somehow I made a mistake a posted a post on the Eagan blog instead of on my blog, it had two videos of Owen swimming and to download them here again will take more time than I have of Owen eating in his high chair, so here is the link please go there to watch them. http://balkrdeaganfamily.blogspot.com/2011/08/swimming.html

Traveling with Owen is Anything but Restful

2011-08-08T10:37:00.002-06:00

Owen's a traveling baby, but he doesn't want to be a baby and he doesn't necessarily care to fly. He did awesome on both legs from Montana to Michigan, sleeping most of both flights and even walking off the plane from Denver to Michigan. He thinks he is so much bigger than he is. At the lay over he was a nightmare, we couldn't stay in one spot and I didn't want to lug all our stuff around. So I tried to limit him to a small area and it worked somewhat. It was a really long two hour layover. I was so tired and he so wasn't. He went from the chairs to the side of the moving walkway and back over and over again. He climbed on the chairs, he stepped up on the metal ledge by the walk way and fell over when he'd try to grab the moving railing, he quickly learned to just let his hand rest on the railing. He seemed to have lots of fun, while I barely kept my eyes open. I bought him a fruit smoothy so that he wouldn't scream for my coffee and they were nice enough to give me an extra small cup so he only spilled a little at a time. He looked cute though and waved at and said hi to all sorts of strangers definitely wasn't a boring trip.

Owen's Rod's Soda

2011-08-08T10:04:00.002-06:00

In Montana there is an establishment that is a drive in diner. One of our favorite places to get flavored sodas. This was Beau's favorite, so while we were there Melissa bought Owen his first and probably only Rod's. Owen loved it because I didn't make him share with me and he wouldn't put it down until it was gone.

He was this happy the whole time he had it.

First Day of School in Georgia

2011-08-08T09:39:00.003-06:00

It's been a while, but now that we are stabilized I should be back on the blog. The kids started school today. Luke was bouncing off walls, Beau was excited but a little nervous, Anna has been sick to her stomach for a couple days and although she knew it needed to be done there wasn't any bouncing from her. All of their teachers seem to be great for them, Anna's was super nice and spent a lot of time greeting her and helping her get her stuff arranged.

Each of them got ready in their own way.The boys were up early and dressed right away. They ate breakfast brushed teeth and then played until it was time to go. Luke even had to get his shoes on early.
Beau spent his extra time in his room playing.

Anna had to be woke up and encouraged to get ready. She spent her extra time making her bed and organizing her stuff maybe we've turned over a new leaf this summer and she is going to be more organized and clean, we can only hope.Looking forward to picking them up and hearing all about their day.

5x7 Folded Card

2011-07-30T12:47:00.001-06:00

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Luke Learned To Ride His Bike

2011-06-19T19:27:00.003-06:00

Luke was so proud of himself. He learned to ride his bike for Daddy on Father's Day. Yeah Luke! There is video but it won't download tonight for reasons beyond me so it will have to wait until tomorrow. But the pictures are cute.

Happy Birthday To Our Baby

2011-06-19T06:53:00.002-06:00

One year ago today I was introduced to the smiliest little boy in the world. He came when Ben was the busiest he could be at work, but nonetheless Ben was there by my side to welcome our fourth child. Owen came home to join our busy household just a few weeks into summer vacation so I got to have several weeks of just me and four beautiful children, Ben had to work very long hours because of major flooding. I wouldn't say that I remember it being the happiest time of my life, for the first time I experience post partum depression a little (or a lot). Thankfully I had three great kids that played non-stop and only came to ask for meals while I rocked and cuddled with my bundle of joy fighting off the negatives.
That month went by so fast as have the following months. My baby is the biggest one we've had. He didn't want to be a baby, he has done everything early. He wants to be one of the big kids, but he still cuddles and needs me all the time. He's a hilarious little boy, his antics have always kept us laughing. He would spin on his bottom from the time he could sit up and jabber non-stop. Now he is running and still jabbering incessantly. He refuses to go down steps backwards, but can climb up them way too quickly. He loves swinging and anything that makes his stomach drop. Owen Benjamin is really living up to his name, he has no fear, he tries everything and the boy loves to eat. He lives to go outside, if someone doesn't take him out he will beat the door down until he gets his way. He plays with balls all day, he kicks and throws and chases them all over. Give him a golf club or baseball bat and he will walk around the yard hitting and chasing. There is no shortage of fun when Owen is around and there is no rest, but we are so thankful to have him. He makes us laugh, he keeps us busy, and he has shown me just how wonderful his older siblings are in the way they love him and take care of him.
Happy Birthday to our Owen, we love you.

One Year In Pictures

2011-06-18T21:39:00.003-06:00

Owen's Birthday June 19, 2010

6 Days Old

July - One Month Old

August - 2 Months Old

September - 3 Months Old

October - 4 Months

November - 5 Months

December - 6 Months

January - 7 Months

February - 8 Months

March - 9 Months

April - 10 Months

May - 11 Months

June 18 - One Year

Owen's Cake and the Why Behind It

2011-06-18T21:32:00.001-06:00

The kids insisted we make Owen a cake for his birthday.
Today was my grandmother's 93rd birthday and we had a party for her.
But we couldn't ignore that tomorrow (almost today, its late)
Owen turns one. So we made him a cake too.
Owen loves balls, and his siblings were more than helpful in the design
and carrying out the cake decorating.
Beau did the green for the soccer ball and tennis ball, Anna did the orange for the
basketball, and Luke did the blue. They critiqued my technique along the way
and they were all very happy with the end product, although
Beau said we should have had a red "1" on a green pentagon.

This is why Owen had a cake of balls.
He loves balls. He really enjoys golf, but I didn't want
to try to decorate a cake with dimples.

Look Who's One

2011-06-18T21:27:00.003-06:00

Where I've Been

2011-06-18T08:30:00.002-06:00

Life afforded me an opportunity I'd never expected last week. I got to go spend a week with my husband and no children in paradise. I headed to the U.S. Virgin Islands last Wednesday to meet up with Ben where he was working. We snorkeled, hiked, and remembered what it was like to just be a couple without kids hanging from us, interrupting or requiring something. It was fabulous. It was a trip where thousands of memories made, and our love glowed and grew and we just got to breathe.

Cinnamon Bay at sunset on St. John's.

Driving down the road in St. John's.

Buck Island in St. Croix, where one of Ben's main projects is located.

Proof in a picture, that we were really there.

There are lots more stories to share about our trip. Jellyfish, no-see-ums, flights
humidity, sunsets. A fabulous time and I am so overwhelmingly thankful to have had the opportunity.

Hanging Around

2011-06-18T08:28:00.001-06:00

The kids love to play.
Monkey bars are a family favorite.
Owen just isn't quite able to join in but a football can keep him happy.

Eagan Cousins

2011-06-18T08:25:00.003-06:00

Ten cousins...
Lots of fun...
Hard to get them in one shot.
Family keeps growing.

We got to have my side of the family all together a few weeks ago, minus Uncle Ben :(
Next week we will get to have Ben's side of the family together with Ben :)
We only have to get 5 in that picture. Can't wait.

Growing

2011-06-05T17:57:00.002-06:00

He looks older every day.
I can't believe he's almost one.
My baby is such a big boy.
The nickname that seems to be sticking is Big "O".
Although he'll always be his daddy's Cooter.

Babes on the Beach

2011-06-01T21:07:00.001-06:00

We enjoyed the beach of Lake Michigan yesterday
The kids had a blast, the water was cold but they didn't care.
They were smiles all day.
Sand and water can entertain my kids for hours.

What Owen Did During the Squit Gun Battle

2011-05-19T08:26:00.002-06:00

Owen loved the freedom to color.
Anna nicknamed him Doodle Bug.
Each of the have a bug name for their Memere
and Owen's was finally coined.

Water Gun Fight in Georgia

2011-05-18T15:18:00.003-06:00

It's cold and rainy in Michigan, I am really missing the sun we had in Georgia. Looking at these pictures helps a little. 99 cent water guns made for hours of fun for these gunslingers. The shades protected their eyes from the water not the sub. Owen was an innocent by-stander although he was soaked and ready for a nap half way through the marathon gun fight. I think they were out there for at least three hours without coming in for a break.

Golf Anyone?

2011-05-11T15:07:00.002-06:00

Great-Grandma's backyard for her birthday. Owen loved playing with the golf clubs. The kids and I played croquet and I didn't take any more pictures because once I put the camera down to play I forgot to pick it back up.

Visiting Grandpa Bernie

2011-05-11T14:34:00.005-06:00

It's been almost 16 years since Ben and Kara lost their dad and Joyce lost her husband, but the love for him continues and grows as our children hear the stories. We are thankful to be closer to look after the grave site at the cemetery.

A proud daddy with a heart full of sorrow
longing to sit his baby boy in Grandpa's lap instead of on his gravestone.

May His Soul Rest in Peace.

Napping in Georgia

2011-05-11T14:29:00.003-06:00

No clothes necessary (or wanted)!
Playing outside really tires him out, yeah me!
I love it here!

Owen's First Time in Leaves

2011-05-03T11:11:00.003-06:00

Pointing at the neighbor's leaf blower.

Tentatively exploring the pile of leaves.

Anna and Luke joined him.

Anna throwing leaves over Owen.

Owen imitating Anna and trying to pick up his own leaves to throw.

Valiant effort.

Owen's New Car

2011-05-03T10:52:00.001-06:00

Owen got a birthday present from Bama and PopPop a little early, and he loves it. His siblings are also very willing to push him and play with him in it.

I love this picture of Anna.

A Moment in the Day

2011-05-01T08:00:00.001-06:00

Anna chasing Owen down, as he roams the yard. He loves to be outside.

Boys getting the mail. A favorite activity of the day unless its raining.

Owen playing

2011-05-01T07:55:00.003-06:00

I've always said Owen is a two parent baby. He thrives when he has both dad and mom home. He is doing so much better now that there are more adults in the house while we visit the grandparents. He is still clingier than he used to be but he is playing with toys again and emptying toy boxes and creating mischief. He also cheeses for the camera and even says something resembling cheese.

Boys swinging

2011-05-01T07:50:00.002-06:00

First there were two

Then Luke joined the fun

The smiles say it all

To the moon

Back to earth

Easter Egg Hunt

2011-04-28T08:41:00.001-06:00

Want a Potato Smooch?

2011-04-28T08:39:00.000-06:00

Easter Egg

2011-04-28T07:06:00.002-06:00

This egg was a combination effort by Luke and Anna.
They didn't do anything special or use any special tools,
they just stuck in two colors and this is what happened.

The kids said the bunny was sneaking in and dropping off the egg
which was on the backside of the egg.
It was so cool and so much fun.

This is night vision effect from a photo editing program I use.
You can see the rabbit and egg very well in these.

Our own little Easter miracle. ;)

Outside Fun

2011-04-25T12:58:00.003-06:00

The sun is peeking through.
My kids aren't sure what to do.
They get to go outside to play.
And the mud isn't getting in the way.
There is no snow.
They take off on their bikes and go.
Swinging is so much fun.
Blowing bubbles into the sun.
Even Owen won't stay inside.
He pounds on the door and cries to go ride.
He loves his rocket swing to fly.
Beau, Anna and Luke swing so high.
Even morning rain can't keep them in.
Being almost all together makes me grin.
Soon we will be with Ben
and we'll be a whole family again.